A Few Thoughts: 誰是真正愛你的人--魯文 Who Truly Loves You

I found this a while ago, and I felt it was quite interesting to ponder about~~ Not that I agree with everything, but before we lose someone who truly loves us in our lives, lets try to notice these people. Don't have so many regrets in life, its not worth it. Don't have so many wants in life, it only makes you unhappy. Don't have so many complaints, isn't it better to be thankful?

**I think they use "lover" with the idea that it's more casual and not as serious as someone who truly loves you? Not 100% sure xD**

關係一般的情人，祇注意你迷人的笑容。
一個真正愛你的人，會特別注意你緊鎖的雙眉。
Your average lover**, will be mesmerized by your smile.
Someone who truly loves you, will be especially sensitive to your furrowed brows.

關係一般的情人，充其量是聽聽你訴說困擾。
一個真正愛你的人，會積極為你解決困擾。

Your average lover, at best will listen to your troubles.
Someone who truly loves you, will actively try to help you solve your troubles.

關係一般的情人，習慣於帶你去吃他認為好吃的東西。
一個真正愛你的人，會親手為你准備你喜歡吃的東西。

Your average lover, has a habit of bringing you to eat their favorite foods.
Someone who truly loves you, will make your favorite foods themselves.

關係一般的情人，只會時時等著你的電話或邀請。
一個真正愛你的人，時時想打電話給你。

Your average lover, will constantly wait for your phone call or invites.
Someone who truly loves you, will constantly want to call you.

關係一般的情人，討厭你在他睡了後打電話來。
一個真正愛你的人，會間為什麼現在才打電話來。

Your average lover, will dislike it when you call them while they are asleep.
Someone who truly loves you, will ask you why you're calling them now.

關係一般的情人，永遠祝福你幸福。
一個真正愛你的人，永遠會想著如何給你幸福。

Your average lover, will always wish you happiness.
Someone who truly loves you, will always think about how to give you happiness.

關係一般的情人，希望你為他改變。
一個真正愛你的人，希望他為你改變。

Your average lover, hopes that you will change for them.
Someone who truly loves you, hopes that he/she may change for you.

關係一般的情人，會責問你為什麼讓他難過。
一個真正愛你的人，會自責為什麼讓你難過。

Your average lover, will question why you let them be sad
Someone who truly loves you, will question him/herself why he/she let you be sad.

關係一般的情人，常會想著產生裂痕的原因。
一個真正愛你的人，會積極考慮彌合裂痕的辦法。

Your average lover, will frequently think of what caused the rifts.
Someone who truly loves you, will frequently consider how to fix the rifts.

關係一般的情人，大多衹會看到他為你所做的努力。
一個真正愛你的人，會看到你為他所做的一切努力。

Your average lover, at most will see how much he/she has done for you.
Someone who truly loves you, will see all the things you've done for him/her.

關係一般的情人，在吵架後往往認為愛情已經結束。
一個真正愛你的人，卻懂得真正愛情要經歷爭吵的考驗。

Your average lover, will believe that your love has ended after an argument.
Someone who truly loves you, will understand that true love undergoes and can withstand the trials of arguments.

關係一般的情人，期望你永遠在他身邊陪伴他。
一個真正愛你的人，渴望他能永遠伴在你身旁！
Your average lover, expects you will stay by his/her side forever.
Someone who truly loves you, desires to stay by your side forever!

So open your eyes to those around you and see who truly is there for you! Cherish every moment with them! Cherish THEM. (Sorry about the bad translation, it's written much more beautifully in Chinese ^^")